We set goals for ourselves to find the success that we dreamed of. If that means setting goals to be debt free, then we do what we need to do to accomplish those goals. This entails setting a budget that needs to be followed, tracking our spending using spreadsheets, and living more frugal to prevent any unnecessary spending. These little goals that you accomplish will help you reach your bigger goal to become debt free.
Although we like to set ourselves up for success, how do you know if you’re able to even accomplish them?
I read an email from Medium and it listed several points on how to be unsuccessful. If you don’t know what Medium is, it’s a platform for writers that write content on many various topics. I like it because it gives me different ideas to what I can blog about.
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Anyway, the email I received got me thinking about how being unsuccessful looks like at the other side. I always focus on positivity and doing things that will help you stay ahead. Never had I once thought about all the things that people might be doing to sabotage themselves and their success. Continue to below to see what I had learned from Personal Growth on Medium.
Below are common traits that could sabotage your success.
Be Impulsive: Allow emotions to control your thinking and behavior. Don’t think things through or look at things from different angles.
Have a Negative Attitude: Blame other people for your problems. Especially problems you created. And feel sorry for yourself.
Be Over-Confident: Believe that you know things you don’t actually know and be sure about it. Jump to conclusions. Believe you’re better at things than you really are.
Be Unreliable: Always be thinking about yourself. Don’t show up. Do a poor job.
Stop Learning: Don’t read. Don’t continuously educate yourself.
Don’t Choose Your Friends Wisely: Hang around negative, under-educated people and take their advice to heart.
Always Try To Fit In: Make decisions based primarily on what other people will think about you.
If these traits sound familiar to you, you might be destroying your own chances for success. The crazy part of all this is that you may not even realize you’re doing it.
So let’s try to turn things around one trait at a time.
I’ll explain what I like to do keep pushing myself towards success.
- I follow other blogs in my interests and listen to their podcasts
- Read books on personal finance
- Keep track of where the money is going
- Connect with other people who ‘get you’
Continue to read more on Daily Positivity in Baby Steps So You Don’t Feel Overwhelmed On Your Debt Free Journey.
What do you do to help keep yourself stay on the positive track to success?
Helpful Resources that I’d Like to Share:
Below you’ll find my top resources for blogging, saving money & more!
Blog Resources: Here is a list of tools that I personally use for my own blog. See all the courses I took to improve how I blog and the list of plugins that help keep my blog running smoothly.
Save Money on Groceries: This has been such a struggle for me since day 1 and I always go over budget with grocery shopping on certain weeks. But as long as I stick with my plan, I have my shopping list, and I leave the boyfriend home then I’ll be fine.
$5 Meal Plan: This has been such a time saver for me! This relates to my resource above on grocery shopping. I struggled with meal prepping because I just don’t have the time to spend looking for recipes. I decided to try this out because I have seen popular bloggers mention it and curiosity got the best of me. The system sends me recipes and a shopping list weekly. The recipes are so easy to cook and it helps me save time.
Personal Capital: Do you know what your net worth is currently? Instead of logging into many accounts to track my net worth, I rely on one service. Personal Capital tracks your investments, expenses, and savings. The best thing about this? It’s free!
Free Printables: I went a bit crazy and created a bunch of my own printables that I use for myself to help keep me organized. I also find some amazing printables online that I’d like to share with you. You access everything if you sign up below. I’ll send you the password and the library is yours to enjoy!
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